About Me
My goal with this blog is to replicate what I do on my Four Pilars podcast in a literature form so that I can help people become the absolute best versions of themselves possible. Whether that is me sharing my insights of how I take care of my physical and mental health, telling my story of how I found my purpose, what my partner and I do to improve our relationship so that we are always living with happiness, peace and joy or how I learned to cultivate inner happiness through faith, mindfulness and meditation. Given that, I also want to share more of my life here on this blog. Where I can talk about traveling, my childhood, my family and my experiences growing up as an East Indian.
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Batman Jun 02, 2023
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Quality Over Quantity With Books Dec 08, 2022
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How to Find Pleasure In Your Simple Moments Nov 16, 2022
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Easy & Comfortable Vs. Hard & Difficult Nov 02, 2022
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Funerals Sep 21, 2022
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Gratitude Sep 07, 2022
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Sharing The Wealth Aug 03, 2022
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What I Learned From My Trip to Tracy, California. Jul 20, 2022
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Allow People to Live Their Own Life Jul 06, 2022
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You Can’t Stop Somebody Who Knows Where Their Going Jun 15, 2022
Galileo once said “You cannot teach a man anything, you can only help him find it within himself.”
We as human beings have such a strong desire to be right all the time and it’s not even the fact that we want to be right it’s the fact that we want to be right and prove other people wrong as well.
We want people to have the same values as us, we want people to act the same way we act, we want people to see life the same way we see life and when people don’t do this we force “our way” of life onto them. What I learned in the book “How to Win Friends And Influence People” Is that you cannot force your knowledge, opinions and values down other people’s oesophagus. The more you try doing this it will make the other person resent you and ultimately make them not listen to you.
Be open minded and allow people to live their lives on their own terms - good or bad, because most people are egotistical, which means they are excessively conceited or absorbed in themselves (self-centred). If this hypothesis is true that means that most people are not going to listen to your principles or way of live or let you convince them that their principles and way of life is wrong. The best thing you can do is understand Galileo’s conception of “you cannot teach a man anything, you can only help him find it within himself.”
Respect other peoples opinions by being open minded. Don’t tell them the wrong. Just walk through life doing your absolute best by living life based on what works for you. If people see through your actions that what you’re saying is beneficial, they will adapt. If not, do not stress or worry about it. People are allowed to be different, people are allowed to live life on their terms, people are allowed to make their mistakes and people are allowed to have their own opinions and values.
We as human beings have such a strong desire to be right all the time and it’s not even the fact that we want to be right it’s the fact that we want to be right and prove other people wrong as well.
We want people to have the same values as us, we want people to act the same way we act, we want people to see life the same way we see life and when people don’t do this we force “our way” of life onto them. What I learned in the book “How to Win Friends And Influence People” Is that you cannot force your knowledge, opinions and values down other people’s oesophagus. The more you try doing this it will make the other person resent you and ultimately make them not listen to you.
Be open minded and allow people to live their lives on their own terms - good or bad, because most people are egotistical, which means they are excessively conceited or absorbed in themselves (self-centred). If this hypothesis is true that means that most people are not going to listen to your principles or way of live or let you convince them that their principles and way of life is wrong. The best thing you can do is understand Galileo’s conception of “you cannot teach a man anything, you can only help him find it within himself.”
Respect other peoples opinions by being open minded. Don’t tell them the wrong. Just walk through life doing your absolute best by living life based on what works for you. If people see through your actions that what you’re saying is beneficial, they will adapt. If not, do not stress or worry about it. People are allowed to be different, people are allowed to live life on their terms, people are allowed to make their mistakes and people are allowed to have their own opinions and values.